Weekly support group for partners of breast cancer patients losing a key member
|Marv and Maria Edelstein|
Marv Edelstein is leaving the San Francisco Bay Area — and the state of California.
One of the four original members of Man to Man, he's been a regular for 23 years, since shortly after his wife, Maria, was diagnosed with breast cancer.
But Marv has found the local traffic and congestion more than he chooses to handle. And Maria apparently is even more bothered by the negative impact those changes have had recently.
It's not easy for them to say goodbye to the area, however.
They've lived in their San Rafael home 37 years.
Marv has been a regular in the weekly support group for 23 years and, in fact, has been vice chair and treasurer for a long time.
He's always been the epitome of the perfect member — particularly helpful to newcomers because he's been willing to be totally vulnerable, open and honest about his own ups and downs with Maria's bout with breast cancer more than two decades ago.
And her second bout earlier this year.
Marin Man to Man began when husbands of women with breast cancer in the First Position ballet support group realized they needed support themselves.
Eight current Man to Man members gathered this past Wednesday to wish Marv a fond farewell, to express their appreciation of his past contributions, and to say they hope he'll drop in again whenever he's visiting the Bay Area.
The Edelsteins intend to vacation in McCall, Idaho, then move either to Oregon or Washington to be closer to their son, who lives in Seattle.
The stories of their fighting cancer and Man to Man can be found in "Rollercoaster: How a man can survive his partner's breast cancer," a VitalityPress book I, Woody Weingarten, have aimed at male caregivers.